Recently, I worked with a family who had a sweet, friendly small dog who only showed aggressive behavior toward one family member and they were puzzled as to why this was. Dogs instinctively live according to strict hierarchical rules within the pack in order to minimize conflict and simply put: packs that are conflict-free survive. …
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Posts by Elaine Poulin
Just a few sessions
My one-year-old dog is more responsive, calmer, and more-balanced. We receive constant compliments about her behavior. Thanks to just a few short sessions with Elaine, my dog is consistently well-behaved!
Good Calm Manners – from our Fall 2018 Newsletter
Ever wondered why your dogs over-react with intense excitement when you return home or when your visitors arrive or even when you’re feeding them a meal? The answer is: you are your dog’s mirror. In other words, when you are excited to see your beloved pooch after a long day away, your dog becomes excited …
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Summer Safety Tips
Make sure your dog is protected from parasites like fleas, ticks, and mosquitoes – be sure that your dog’s prescription matches his weight for the correct dosage! Never, ever, EVER leave your dog in a hot car: Also important to remember is that your car insulates heat. So, if the outdoor temperature is 85 degrees …
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Introducing Your Puppies
Believe it or not, Spring is the time of year when many people become new dog owners and so, I feel that it’s my duty to encourage my readers to spread the word about this very important e-word: EXPOSURE! That means exposing your new puppy to your world, otherwise known as socialization.
So many people are told by trusted friends and even professionals to keep their puppy at home until s/he is fully vaccinated. Unfortunately, puppies do not get fully vaccinated until 16 weeks old. By then, the critical age between 3 to 12 weeks have passed! It’s during this critical age that puppies are completely open and receptive to experiencing everything in our world that we often take for granted. It’s during this critical period in a pup’s development when they’re interest in new stimuli, people, experiences and other animals far outweigh any fear or anxiety toward them.
Even the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior believes “that it should be the standard of care for puppies to receive such socialization before they’re fully vaccinated”. Read more about AVSAB’s mission statement here: http://noriusuns.lt/images/puppy_socialization.pdf
So, if you know someone with a new puppy aged 3 to 12 weeks, be sure to pass this important information on. These pups should be taken out on leash at times of day when they will encounter school buses, garbage trucks, traffic, and children playing and be exposed to water and water hoses, lawn mowers, bicycles, skateboards, garden flags, manholes and drains, vacuum cleaners and brooms and the list goes on and on!
Be sure to encourage any self-confidence or curiosity you pup exhibits toward this new experience or thing with exuberance and praise! But, if your pup wants nothing to do with it, please don’t force him toward the thing or experience in question. Rather, motivate him by you, yourself, showing curiosity for it. You can even entice him with a treat by leading or luring the treat from his nose to whatever it may be.
However, if your pup shows fear or anxiety toward this new thing, be sure not to pet or pick him up or worse, baby talk the fear away. We humans want to make any anxiety better by sharing affection as we would to another human. However, the fact of the matter is. that if you pet your pup at the time he’s anxious, then you’re effectively telling him to keep being anxious. Remember, you get what you pet! That means if you pet a calm mind, you’ll get more of a calm mind. And, you guessed it, if you pet a fearful mind, you’ll get more fearfulness.
So, when your friend delivers the good news that a new pup will be joining his family, remember that important e-word: EXPOSURE! Early exposure or socialization will set their pup up for success and you’ll have done a great service by sharing this information!
Dog Tip: Always ask the owner for permission to pet their dog before reaching your hand to the dog.
Upcoming Summer Pack Walk for Graduate Dogs Only: Saturday, June 2nd @ 10:00 am, Downtown Cary. Space limited. Please rsvp no later than May 26th.
Are Electronic Dog Collars Safe?
By: Robin MacFarlane, That’s My Dog! If you have questions regarding the safety of remote training collars be careful who you seek information from. Too often, questions are answered with stories and opinion that has little to do with fact and reality. And individuals intent on portraying e-collars as harmful continue to spread misinformation by …
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Santa Brought a Puppy!
Happy holidays from our pack to yours! Thinking of expanding your family with four legs and a tail? Then this one’s for you – It is very important to consider your options carefully and become educated before making a life-long commitment with a dog. There’s much to consider– including your lifestyle, activity level and environment. …
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Dog Friendly Beaches – from our Summer 2017 Newsletter
If your dog loves to swim or frolic on the beach, then it’s worth the trip to this sandy oasis: The town of Duck allows well-mannered and voice-controlled dogs off-leash on their beaches all year long! I had to call the town of Duck to hear it for myself! Yes, it’s true, there are …
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Speaking Dog
“My dog’s feelings are hurt” or “My dog is mad at me” are a couple of the many phrases I often hear my clients tell me. Ever wonder what your dog is telling you? Dogs communicate mostly with body language signals. Learning to interpret these signals is incredibly helpful in mastering the art of communication …
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Is this The Right Dog For Me?
Choosing a dog can be a difficult and confusing decision! Should I get a puppy or an adult dog? Should I adopt a dog from a shelter or a rescue organization or should I find a breeder with a litter? What breed is best for me? These are all important questions especially when you’re considering …
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